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At Wits End!!!!!!!!!!!!

childofGod started this conversation
Sep 25, 2010
what the heck r poor people suppose to do?I am at the point if I can not wake up to some relief then I would rather not wake up at all.I have a very painful back and bone disease that keeps me in bed 3 out of 4 weeks,I have no one to talk to,my husband is also disabled with congestive heart failure and diabetes.He stays gone most of the time.The bills are unbelieveable,we take 46 meds a day,some as many as 5 each,I also have shots for severe migraines,and have almost died twice in 2 years.We can barely keep a roof over our head.But I have applied for everything under the sun and get told we are any where from$10.00 to $50.00 over the limit.I am so stressed I fill like I am going to explode.My husband also has the I.Q. of a 2nd grader,can't read or write and is no help to me and I can't even take care of myself.What do u do?No friends,family that does not care,government that won't help,all sorts of people who know our situation but just turn and walk away.We r not old 47 and 52.We both worked hard until we got taken by diseases and now we just exist.The doctors do not care about the severeity of the pain only that you will get addicted to pain meds.What does it matter if what life you have left is unbearable with severe pain,they would need more Than I do.NO help,no way,where do u go from here?Anyone got a clue tell me,PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   You can e-mail me at                                                                                               kj4ayp@yahoo.com                                                                                        ref: I Care
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Starshine
Sep 27, 2010
 in response to childofGod...   You are welcome and take care of yourself as I know it is hard. I too feel tired at times with the stress and bills.. take care
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childofGod
Sep 27, 2010
 in response to myJesusluvs...   I am a firm believer of the power of God and his healing power.But I also know it is in HIS time not mine.I enjoyed the video and watched several more.Thank you for your concern.I will let you know the last time,back in April of this year,I was at Jesus's Feet.All I saw was his tired feet and bottom of his tattered robe.I begged him to let me please look upon his face but he would not,it was like I was paralyzed, I could not raise my hands off the floor or lift my head to look upon him and he told me"Child it's not your time" and I feel chills each time I talk about it.Thank you For Caring.Not many humans do.GOD BLESS YOU
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childofGod
Sep 27, 2010
 in response to ekikaseven...   Thank you.I am tired.childofGod
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childofGod
Sep 27, 2010
 in response to Starshine...   Thank you for caring.God knows I have tried everything.I am just exhausted.Take care.childofGod
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Starshine
Sep 25, 2010

Hello again

You said you had a hard time taking care of yourself and I don't know if this is the answer or not but check out this and see what it is all about.

CLICK HERE

i DON't know if you are senior or not but contact local senior center or hospital to see if they know of a program to help people who are not able to do everything someone else can. I had a service for housecleaning. It was for seniors. Call around and see what you can find out.. In the previous link for rent see if Jewish Family Services in your area can help you with some home care too..

Good luck

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Starshine
Sep 25, 2010

Hello

Maybe a free medical clinic might help with some of the expenses of your chronic pain. I Know people with chronic pain and for them it is exhausting ..

CLICK HERE

FOR THEM..excuse me getting use to new way of doing things.

And maybe some of these might help you out with help for rent etc

CLICK HERE

I hope this helps you some..

Good luck and take care

 

 


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ekikaseven
Sep 25, 2010

I am so sorry you are going through this. I understand about the suffering & being in chronic pain.
Do you and your hubby get disability checks. If not, please apply.
Continue to pray. If praying is not working, then fast & pray. Ask the L-rd for wisdom, guidance & help.

G-d bless you.

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myJesusluvs
Sep 25, 2010

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7_NZQ3e6Gjs

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